- bother
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1 MAKE AN EFFORT (I, T) to make the effort to do something(+ about/with) BrE: I'm too busy to bother about fixing it now. | (not) bother to do sth: Unfortunately he didn't bother to check the exact wording of the contract before he signed it. | Nobody listens to me. I don't know why I bother. | (not) bother doing something: I don't know if Sally's coming to the party. I didn't bother asking. | don't/didn't/won't etc bother: "Do you want me to wait for you?" "No, don't bother."2 WORRY (I, T) to make someone feel slightly worried or upset: Being in a crowd really bothers me.(+ about): BrE: I don't think his feelings are worth bothering about. | bother sb that: It really bothered me that he'd forgotten my birthday. | not bother sb: Mandy hates walking home alone at night but it doesn't bother me.3 ANNOY (I, T) to annoy someone by interrupting them when they are trying to do something: Danny, stop bothering me while I'm trying to work! | bother sb about/with sth: He didn't want to bother her with his financial problems on their honeymoon.4 can't/couldn't be bothered BrE used to say that you do not want to do something because you do not have enough energy or interest: I knew I ought to clean the car but I just couldn't be bothered. | can't/couldn't be bothered to do sth: My parents could never be bothered to come and see me in the school play.5 not bothered especially BrE if you are not bothered about something, it is not important to you: "Which chair do you want?" "I'm not bothered."(+ about): He's not really bothered about getting the facts right,6 sorry to bother you spoken used as a very polite way of telling someone you want their attention7 FRIGHTEN (T) to upset or frighten someone by repeatedly trying to hurt them, touch them sexually etc: Is that man bothering you? Shall I call the police?8 hot and bothered angry and worried about something, especially unnecessarily: What are you getting all hot and bothered about? It's not that important.9 not bother yourself/not bother your head to not take time or energy to do something or to think about something, either because it is not important or because it is too difficult(+ with/about): Cliff didn't want to bother himself with masses of detail.10 bother it/them etc BrE old-fashioned used to express a sudden feeling of annoyance about something: Oh bother it! The thread's broken again!2 noun1 (U) especially BrE trouble or difficulty that has been caused by small problems and that usually only continues for a short time: It's an old car but it's never caused me any bother.(+ with): Joe's been having a bit of bother with his back again recently. | it's no bother spoken (=used to emphasize that you are happy to help someone and it is not much effort): "Thanks for your help." "It was no bother at all." | go to the bother (of doing sth) (=make the effort to do something): I'm not going to go to the bother of writing again. She never writes back. | give sb any bother/a lot of bother etc: Are you sure the station is on your way? I don't want to give you any extra bother. | save sb/yourself the bother (of doing sth): I should have phoned the shop first and saved myself the bother of going there.2 (singular) BrE a person or job that is annoying to deal with: Sorry to be such a bother but could you show me how the photocopier works?3 interjection BrE used when you are slightly annoyed about something: Oh bother! I forgot to phone Jean.
Longman dictionary of contemporary English. 2004.